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Husband & wife ( میاں بیوی کے حقوق )

Are men free to approach their wives for sexual purpose at all times except during menstruation?

کیا مرد اپنی بیویوں سے حیض کے دنوں کے علاوہ کسی بھی وقت جنسی تعلق قائم کرسکتے ہیں؟

Surah Al-Baqarah: 2 - Ayah: 187
Arabic
اُحِلَّ لَـکُمۡ لَيۡلَةَ الصِّيَامِ الرَّفَثُ اِلٰى نِسَآٮِٕكُمۡ​ؕ هُنَّ لِبَاسٌ لَّـكُمۡ وَاَنۡـتُمۡ لِبَاسٌ لَّهُنَّ ؕ عَلِمَ اللّٰهُ اَنَّکُمۡ كُنۡتُمۡ تَخۡتَانُوۡنَ اَنۡفُسَکُمۡ فَتَابَ عَلَيۡكُمۡ وَعَفَا عَنۡكُمۡۚ فَالۡـــٰٔنَ بَاشِرُوۡهُنَّ وَابۡتَغُوۡا مَا کَتَبَ اللّٰهُ لَـكُمۡ وَكُلُوۡا وَاشۡرَبُوۡا حَتّٰى يَتَبَيَّنَ لَـكُمُ الۡخَـيۡطُ الۡاَبۡيَضُ مِنَ الۡخَـيۡطِ الۡاَسۡوَدِ مِنَ الۡفَجۡرِ​ؕ ثُمَّ اَتِمُّوا الصِّيَامَ اِلَى الَّيۡلِ​ۚ وَلَا تُبَاشِرُوۡهُنَّ وَاَنۡـتُمۡ عٰكِفُوۡنَ فِى الۡمَسٰجِدِؕ تِلۡكَ حُدُوۡدُ اللّٰهِ فَلَا تَقۡرَبُوۡهَا ؕ كَذٰلِكَ يُبَيِّنُ اللّٰهُ اٰيٰتِهٖ لِلنَّاسِ لَعَلَّهُمۡ يَتَّقُوۡنَ‏
English
It has been made lawful for you to go in to your wives during the night of the fast. They are your garment, and you are theirs. Allah knows that you used to betray yourselves and He mercifully relented and pardoned you. So you may now associate intimately with your wives and benefit from the enjoyment Allah has made lawful for you, and eat and drink at night until you can discern the white streak of dawn against the blackness of the night; then (give up all that and) complete your fasting until night sets in. But do not associate intimately with your wives during the period when you are on retreat in the mosques. These are the bounds set by Allah; do not, then, even draw near them. Thus does Allah make His Signs clear to mankind that they may stay away from evil.
Urdu
Tumhare liye rozon ke zamane mein raaton ko apni biwiyon ke paas jana halal kardiya gaya hai, woh tumhare liye libas hain aur tum unke liye. Allah ko maloom ho gaya ke tumlog chupke chupke apne aap se khayanat kar rahey thay, magar usne tumhara kasoor maaf kardiya aur tumse darguzar farmaya , ab tum apni biwiyon ke saath shab-baashi (intercourse) karo aur jo lutf Allah ne tumhare liye jayiz kardiya hai, usey hasil karo, neiz raaton ko khao pio yahan tak ke tumko syahi e shab ki dhari se sapedha subh ki dhari numaya nazar aa jaye tab yeh sab kaam chodh kar raat tak apna roza poora karo aur jab tum masjid mein mautakif (itteqaf mein) hon to biwiyon se mubashrat na karo, yeh Allah ki bandhi hui haddein hain, inke kareeb ba phatakna, is tarah Allah apne ehkam logon ke liye ba-sarahat (clearly) bayan karta hai, tawaqqu hai ke woh galat rawiyye se bachenge
Surah Al-Baqarah: 2 - Ayah: 222
Arabic
وَ يَسۡـــَٔلُوۡنَكَ عَنِ الۡمَحِيۡضِ​ۙ قُلۡ هُوَ اَذًى فَاعۡتَزِلُوۡا النِّسَآءَ فِى الۡمَحِيۡضِ​ۙ وَلَا تَقۡرَبُوۡهُنَّ حَتّٰى يَطۡهُرۡنَ​​ۚ فَاِذَا تَطَهَّرۡنَ فَاۡتُوۡهُنَّ مِنۡ حَيۡثُ اَمَرَكُمُ اللّٰهُ​ؕ اِنَّ اللّٰهَ يُحِبُّ التَّوَّابِيۡنَ وَيُحِبُّ الۡمُتَطَهِّرِيۡنَ‏
English
They ask you about menstruation. Say: “It is a state of impurity; so keep away from women in the state of menstruation, and do not approach them until they are cleansed. And when they are cleansed, then come to them as Allah has commanded you.” Truly, Allah loves those who abstain from evil and keep themselves pure.
Urdu
Puchte hain: haiz ka kya hukm hai? Kaho: woh ek gandagi ki haalat hai, ismein auraton se alag raho aur unke kareeb na jao, jab tak ke woh paak saaf na ho jayein, phir jab woh paak ho jayein to unke paas jao us tarah jaisa ke Allah ne tumko hukum diya hai, Allah un logon ko pasand karta hai jo badhi (gunaah) se baaz rahein aur pakeezgi ikhtiyar karein
Surah Al-Baqarah: 2 - Ayah: 223
Arabic
نِسَآؤُكُمۡ حَرۡثٌ لَّـكُمۡ فَاۡتُوۡا حَرۡثَكُمۡ اَنّٰى شِئۡتُمۡ​  وَقَدِّمُوۡا لِاَنۡفُسِكُمۡ​ؕ وَاتَّقُوا اللّٰهَ وَاعۡلَمُوۡٓا اَنَّکُمۡ مُّلٰقُوۡهُ ​ؕ وَ بَشِّرِ الۡمُؤۡمِنِيۡنَ‏
English
Your wives are your tilth; go, then, into your tilth as you wish but take heed of your ultimate future and avoid incurring the wrath of Allah. Know well that one Day you shall face Him. Announce good tidings to the believers.
Urdu
Tumhari auratein tumhari khetiyan hain, tumhein ikhtiyar hai jis tarah chaho apni kheti mein jao, magar apne mustaqbil ki fikr karo aur Allah ki narazi se bacho. Khoob jaan lo ke tumhein ek din ussey milna hai. Aur (aey Nabi)! Jo tumhari hidayaat ko maan lein unhein falaah o saadat ka musda (khushkhabri) suna do