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Parents Rights ( والدین کے حقوق )

How Allah has ordered us to treat our parents?

اللہ نے ہمیں والدین سے کس طرح کا برتاؤ کرنے کا حکم دیا ہے؟

Surah Al-Isra: 17 - Ayah: 23
Arabic
وَقَضٰى رَبُّكَ اَلَّا تَعۡبُدُوۡۤا اِلَّاۤ اِيَّاهُ وَبِالۡوَالِدَيۡنِ اِحۡسَانًا​ ؕ اِمَّا يَـبۡلُغَنَّ عِنۡدَكَ الۡكِبَرَ اَحَدُهُمَاۤ اَوۡ كِلٰهُمَا فَلَا تَقُلْ لَّهُمَاۤ اُفٍّ وَّلَا تَنۡهَرۡهُمَا وَقُلْ لَّهُمَا قَوۡلًا كَرِيۡمًا‏
English
Your Lord has decreed: (i) Do not worship any but Him; (ii) Be good to your parents; and should both or any one of them attain old age with you, do not say to them even "fie" neither chide them, but speak to them with respect,
Urdu
Tere Rubb ne faisla kardiya hai ke: tumlog kisi ki ibadat na karo, magar sirf uski, walidain (maa-baap) ke saath neik sulook karo.Agar tumhare pas unmein se koi ek, ya dono, boodhey (old) hokar rahein to unhein ‘ uff ’ tak na kaho, na unhein jhidak kar jawab do , balke unsey ehtaram ke saath baat karo
Surah Al-Isra: 17 - Ayah: 24
Arabic
وَاخۡفِضۡ لَهُمَا جَنَاحَ الذُّلِّ مِنَ الرَّحۡمَةِ وَقُلْ رَّبِّ ارۡحَمۡهُمَا كَمَا رَبَّيٰنِىۡ صَغِيۡرًا ؕ‏
English
and be humble and tender to them and say: "Lord, show mercy to them as they nurtured me when I was small."
Urdu
Aur narmi o reham ke saath unke saamne jhuk kar raho, aur dua kiya karo ke “parwardigar, inpar reham farma jis tarah inhon ne rehmat o shafaqat ke saath mujhey bachpan mein paala tha”
Surah Al-Isra: 17 - Ayah: 25
Arabic
رَّبُّكُمۡ اَعۡلَمُ بِمَا فِىۡ نُفُوۡسِكُمۡ​ؕ اِنۡ تَكُوۡنُوۡا صٰلِحِيۡنَ فَاِنَّهٗ كَانَ لِلۡاَوَّابِيۡنَ غَفُوۡرًا‏
English
Your Lord is best aware of what is in your hearts. If you are righteous, He will indeed forgive those who relent and revert (to serving Allah).
Urdu
Tumhara Rubb khoob jaanta hai ke tumahre dilon mein kya hai, agar tum saleh bankar raho to woh aisey sab logon ke liye darguzar karne wala hai jo apne kasoor par mutanabbeh ho kar bandagi ke rawaiyye ki taraf palat aayein
Surah Al-Ahqaf: 46 - Ayah: 15
Arabic
وَوَصَّيۡنَا الۡاِنۡسَانَ بِوَالِدَيۡهِ اِحۡسَانًا​ ؕ حَمَلَـتۡهُ اُمُّهٗ كُرۡهًا وَّوَضَعَتۡهُ كُرۡهًا​ ؕ وَحَمۡلُهٗ وَفِصٰلُهٗ ثَلٰـثُوۡنَ شَهۡرًا​ ؕ حَتّٰٓى اِذَا بَلَغَ اَشُدَّهٗ وَبَلَغَ اَرۡبَعِيۡنَ سَنَةً  ۙ قَالَ رَبِّ اَوۡزِعۡنِىۡۤ اَنۡ اَشۡكُرَ نِعۡمَتَكَ الَّتِىۡۤ اَنۡعَمۡتَ عَلَىَّ وَعَلٰى وَالِدَىَّ وَاَنۡ اَعۡمَلَ صَالِحًا تَرۡضٰٮهُ وَاَصۡلِحۡ لِىۡ فِىۡ ذُرِّيَّتِىۡ ؕۚ اِنِّىۡ تُبۡتُ اِلَيۡكَ وَاِنِّىۡ مِنَ الۡمُسۡلِمِيۡنَ‏
English
We have enjoined man to be kind to his parents. In pain did his mother bear him and in pain did she give birth to him. The carrying of the child to his weaning is a period of thirty months. And when he is grown to full maturity and reaches the age of forty, he prays: “My Lord, dispose me that I may give thanks for the bounty that You have bestowed upon me and my parents, and dispose me that I may do righteous deeds that would please You, and also make my descendants righteous. I repent to You, and I am one of those who surrender themselves to You.”
Urdu
Humne Insan ko hidayat ki ke woh apne walidain ke saath neik bartaao karey. Uski maa ne mushakkat utha kar usey pait mein rakkha aur mushakkat utha kar hi usko jana(delivered). Aur uske hamal aur doodh chudane mein tees (thirty) mahine lag gaye. Yahan tak ke jab woh apni puri taaqat ko pahuncha aur chaalis(forty) saal ka ho gaya to usne kaha “Aey mere Rubb mujhey taufiq de ke main teri un niyamaton ka shukar ada karoon jo tu ne mujhey aur mere walidain ko ata famayi, aur aisa neik amal karoon jis se tu raazi ho, aur meri aulad ko bhi neik bana kar mujhey sukh de, mein tere huzoor tawbah karta hoon aur taabe farmaan (muslim)bandon mein se hoon”
Surah Al-Ahqaf: 46 - Ayah: 16
Arabic
اُولٰٓٮِٕكَ الَّذِيۡنَ نَـتَقَبَّلُ عَنۡهُمۡ اَحۡسَنَ مَا عَمِلُوۡا وَنَـتَجَاوَزُ عَنۡ سَيِّاٰتِهِمۡ فِىۡۤ اَصۡحٰبِ الۡجَنَّةِ​ ؕ وَعۡدَ الصِّدۡقِ الَّذِىۡ كَانُوۡا يُوۡعَدُوۡنَ‏
English
Such are those from whom We accept their best deeds and whose evil deeds We overlook. They will be among the people of Paradise in consonance with the true promise made to them.
Urdu
Is tarah ke logon se hum unke behtreen aamal ko qabool karte hain aur unki buraiyon se darguzar kar jaate hain. Yeh jannati logon mein shamil hongey us sacche waade ke mutaabiq jo insey kya jaata raha hai